EMOTIONAL FRUSTRATION

Hello all,
Frustration was once known as anxiety and found in disturbed people only. Those who suffered with it were treated sympathetically by normal people. These days it becomes a routine in life of many around the world.  Though people living in developed countries face less of it but still it is there with different shapes. There is a global reason of uncertainty and disturbance between countries. Global warming, race of nuclear power and Socio-economical conditions are also one of the reasons.
These big words were once meant to think tanks and superior head of countries but now media shares each and every news of the world to public. The positive aspect of this is “awareness” i.e. requirement of the time. But the negative impact is, sometimes a little incident affects a lot to a common person.  For example, if there is a planning of coup to some country and there is severe rift between them. In this situation a soft hearted people obviously take it very seriously. The reason behind it that we have seen so many wars and their destructions and a normal person is not in favor of any more. This is all power and number game and nothing else. Such disturbing news raises the frustration and anxiety all over.
Natural disasters, oppression towards humanity and discriminations are also a part of our daily news. There are rift of unfair distribution of boundaries, people are having financial crisis and cruelty is at the peak. Innocent people are being murdered in café, educational institutions, worship  and at other public places. Selfish people are not limited to one place they spread their feet all over the world. No country is safe. Developed countries have power and they deal with all but people of developing countries are facing terrorism, target killing, uncertainty and financial crisis in their vicinity. This is also supporting frustration.
Population, pollution and poor economic situation are also affecting people in many developing countries. People are moving to urban areas for better financial chances. This situation is very alarming in the cities of such third world countries. It affects a lot where people are more and state resources are not enough to manage them all. In such circumstances, first of all, traffic is becoming a mess. We are witnessing a daily traffic jam even in side roads. Long queues are and noise pollution is a routine that increasing stress in people.  Earning opportunities are also less as compare to population.  This environment is affecting in a way where crimes are increasing and creating more emotional frustration in young generation.
In developed countries, life is busy and everyone has time handling problems in daily routine. People try to resolve their problems by putting their responsibilities to various service vendors. Latest technologies lead us away from our loved ones; mobile and internet (social media) is a necessity but people waste a lot of time apart from their job.  We have day to night entertainments that weakens the binding between families. This environment allows selfish people to attract and mislead the new generation by leading them towards bad practices.
At family level, people are away from each others; they love to meet the persons those are only favorable to them.  Sometimes we ignore our loved ones in the race of success and achievements. This ignorance is also making our young generation frustrated, illusionist and day dreamers. It is not a healthy thing for a growing kid. We should pay attention to our children in a way to develop their personality. Improving living style is not limited to good food, standard schools, brands and luxury vacations. Personality is something that makes a person good or bad in a society. No matter in what situation we are living we can educate our children to be a good citizen.

 

In my view, a change at family level is more effective to build a sensible society. Organize your each day in a suitable routine; wake up early, spare a little for exercise, do yoga or meditation. Keep an eye on your diet plans, think positive and do not interfere in others lives. A little prayer according to your believe is also a wonderful idea for the purity of soul and mind. Of course, we all are not having equal opportunities in our lives but one thing is free of cost, i.e. positivity. This will keep you away from worries and frustration. We should not see others to change but take a start at yourself, be a role model and do care about kids as they are the future of human beings.
Best regards.
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MANIPULATIVE GAMES

Hello all,
Technology is everywhere and we are blessed to be the part of this modern age. This is not the end and there are vast opportunities ahead. Machines and equipments make our life easy. We can approach to anybody around the world within seconds. Powerful machines are ready to solve our all problems. 3 D printers are helping to build from small instruments to sky rises. Internet is there to spread information, knowledge and entertainment. Smart phones replace many types of equipment. Watches, calculator, calendar and physical trainer are required for status show off only.
In the age of growing technologies and if I not exaggerate, everything seems possible in this world. Few years back, children were bound to go outside to play soccer, cricket, base ball, badminton and tennis in large playgrounds and streets. Large boards and tables were also required for Pool ball, Luddo, Carom and table tennis. Then time changed, and games are available in smart phones and in access of all kind of people. Old people can now also participate and enjoy any game at their smart phone. If you are not familiar to rules of any games even then you can learn it at internet. Cards are also available with their magnetism.
Time is changed and so are the games. Now there is a lot of addition as compare to traditional games. Entertainment is there according to the mood; amusing, brainy, adventure, suspense and funny apps are available at digital play stores. But in recent times we observe a change that many manipulative games are also available at internet. These are promoting inhuman culture in growing minds. Fresh ones are their target to capture in this trance.
Blue whale game is one of the recent times problem that is in my view is gaining popularity. It is reported that many innocents has been targeted by it and loss their lives. According to the reports it is developed by a psycho who is being sentenced for a small period. This game has 50 levels and it challenges to dare an uneven act and final level challenge is suicide attempt. People are worried for their children. Kids in teenage want their privacy and avoid family members.
I think the situation is not beyond controls. Family bonding is the only solution to this problem. Parents and siblings are best guide to avoid such fake entertainment. Families should spare an hour in night for meeting where all members should discuss their daily routines with each other. People should not avoid sharing with the younger ones; try to elaborate the situation according to their knowledge. This sharing will bring them close to elders and they will surely discuss their routines with them. As an elder, people must watch the routines of their children. Any unusual routine will be an alarm and that should be taken care of. Children are future of mankind and most precious ones. We should build a confident and friendly atmosphere in our homes where everyone feels comfortable to share their all activities.
Games should be for entertainment, knowledge and fun; do not allow them to kill anyone. Such game developers are mentally sick and spreading their sick ideas to others. We should have a confidence to defend against such circumstances. Children and teenagers should also show a gesture of intelligence; one frustrated and psycho cannot change your minds. No need to be desperate in any situation; think positive and quit
such manipulative games at early stage. Humans should not handle with remotes in other hands. There is no psychiatric issue in it; we allow them to capture our thoughts and we have power to refuse the. Sometimes people also relates themselves with others problems and visualise themselves at someone else place. Visualisation is good to bring new ideas in life but excess of everything is bad. Many times reality is different from imaginations. If we are positive towards life, focused and mentally strong, no one can delude us.
Be positive and strong and defeat such selfish developers in any colour they are; blue or white, whale or shark. Defeat them and grab the all gold stars from your life.
Good luck and best regards.

SHOWING OFF

Dear all,
Right from our childhood we love to show and share our personal belonging to our elders, friends and teachers. This gesture of sharing is natural and mostly a growing kid wants to impress others with one’s property. This habit grows up with all of us and we often control it in order to make our privacy. But many could not control this thing and situation aggravates in many cases.
Often, we find many examples in our society that people want to show their social status to others. For this they impress others with their branded dress, accessories and ride; it describes their background and seems accurate when moving in same circle. But they are loud if moving in mediocre. Many of them obviously afford all this but there are also such examples who disguise themselves for any benefit or to deceive others.
Such differences and mismatches are often called show off culture. Some people feel an inner satisfaction where they can tread over others. They try to generate inferiority complex in them and feel proud. They promote personal belongings as they are reachable to all classes and there is nothing abnormal. People influenced with this entire situation and it does not end here. It starts an endless race where mediocre or lower medium standard people also try to purchase such trendy and expensive things. Few of them do not care for right or wrong and want to achieve it all by hooks or crooks.
Another positive example is where people want to show their expertise to others, so that they can be appreciated for their gifted talent. It is a natural way of expression and all noble societies love to buck up such skilled people. It also opens the new ways to promote such talent. Sometimes these brilliant minds grab opportunity to monetize their skills.
These days, social media is full of such examples where one tried and being appreciated afterwards. Now, there is also a category of show offs, who know nothing but try to copy others and tag it at as their original work. Either it is a content, life hack or DIY, all being copied many times and all of them are not giving credit to actual master mind. Copying anybody is not bad but for courtesy sake we should tag the credit to originated person. This attitude will be much appreciated and increase your credit and viewers in serious community, I bet.
I know these habits are hard to catch but one should try not to opt it. “Nip the evil in bud” we are our judge, our inner always pinches us on such nasty things but we often ignore it. Try to listen yourself and get rid of it in early age. If you delay, it will strengthen within you. Being show off is apparently seems not much dangerous but it impacts a lot. Silently but aggressively it changes the structure of society and keeps the morality aside.
I have all this, if you have any suggestion, let me have the feedback. Your every word means a lot.
Best regards.