MOTHER – A SELFLESS RELATION

Hello all,
We live with many relations but there is no one like a mother; most loving and caring personality in world. All other are made of same elements but mother was made with some special like love, care, sacrifice, patience, humbleness, devotion, guidance and selflessness. She is our first ever contact in world. She defines the world to us when we are in her lap. She loves us to grow, teaches us to find new ways, advises us to build our character, forbids us from going to false ways and keeps praying for us in her entire life. We cannot find such personality that has no ambition to get back in return for her sacrifices. Today, it is mother’s day but we should give all our days to our mother, so that she could feel proud at her  brought up; whatever she taught us is not wasted yet.
In our journey of life, we meet so many people who are dissimilar from each other and their priorities are also not the same. But a mother’s love is always same towards her children; her expression may be varying due to unusual circumstances but from conscious, her aims are only the betterment of her kids. This is the only subject where we need no studies or statistics to measure her love; it is always 100% noble and free from any artificiality.
My mother (RIP) was also like any other in world but she did have an additional quality, she never argued with my father; whatever was the situation she stood along with him and obeyed. My father was not a dictator, he tried to provide every comfort to his family but it was an understanding and bonding between both of them.  She also had another quality; she never punished us even if we were wrong. She prohibited us calmly and in a soft way. She always advised us to do right in our life. It affects a lot and I always tried to select the right path. My wife often says that I never seen such calm and loving mother and wife as well.
She did not obtain a chance to get higher education, so she provoked us to do so. My mother also promoted us to participate in games and other extracurricular activities; like gym and cooking. She was our best friend to share our secrets. We are all brothers and no sister; so, I became my mother’s best friend. My father was often too busy in different activities that allowed him to come back home very late. During these waiting hours, she shares her life experiences and says different stories to me because I was also a late night person. I used to read and share different articles and short stories with my mother to kill the boredom of waiting time. Despite this late night duty, I never found her sleeping late in the morning. She got up early and starts performing her duties before others waked up.
She taught us all to cook at our own and I was the first to pick this quality. She thought, this skill will help us if we got a chance to go abroad for higher education and we have to live there all alone. It does not mean that she put everything on me and took a break from kitchen. She loved to prepare different and delicious foods for us and never depend upon any other. She was master in traditional cooking but she molded herself to Chinese cuisine also because my father and I were too keen of it. I still prepare my mother’s recipe of egg and chicken fried rice and chicken corn soup for my family. This is a way to remember her love and the taste of her hands that is still in me; it is all unforgettable.

My mother is not with us but I still want to make her happy even after she is not with us, I try to act upon her teachings. She loved all her relations with true heart and I try to do so. I am not going to advise anybody to do any special towards their mothers as everyone knows well the place of this great personality. It is her day; those who have this blessing can take advantage of her existence.
Best regards.
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INTERNATIONAL WOMEN’S DAY; ITS VALUE AND IMPORTANCE ACCORDING TO ME…

Hello all,

8th March, the “Women’s Day”, a day to remember the continuous struggle of this gender for their rights. The world is celebrating the day to salute and admit the worth they have. This day is being celebrated since 1914 on 8th March. We must not only celebrate the day as a formality but we need to admit the importance of them in every field of life. They are kind as a mother, guide as a teacher, friend as a sister, partner as a housewife and dedicated as a co-worker and so on. They ruled, played, served, conquered, entertain and succeeded in all the ways of life but never been appreciated as they deserved. It took them a long time for winning recognition. Give this attitude an end and state a new way of equality and appreciation.
Being a father of two loving girls and a naughty boy, I feel proud and blessed. I always tried to provide the equal share of life to my daughters but when we talk about the system, this equality is rare. Girls do not have the equal opportunities. First, I want to discuss the education system where the number of schools and colleges are less than the requirement. On the other hand, education is getting expensive. Then what about the most number of girls having not much means of income. These are the girls who will contribute as a future mother and up bring the next generation. The government, of course, is doing many projects for girl’s education but still, it is out of the reach of a poor girl to fulfill her dreams. Then how can this problem be resolved? Education is major and basic need of time and we should come forward with new ideas to solve this social problem. It is mostly recommended and a good idea is to contribute individually to you and help the needy. As well as, doing charity and supporting the already existing programs for women empowerment and awareness.
Secondly, according to me, transportation is also a major problem for women. We can observe a limited space in public transports and people have also not accepted women as a driver of a car or a scooty. The scooty riders are always targeted and bullied by the students and youngsters. Nowadays, in such rush scooty is a blessing for women to reach their school, college or workplace. We still assume women as lesser and careless as the driver. Many jokes are around in social media for fun at women drivers. Well, it is a humiliating behavior to portray their small mistakes as a crime. I think, sometimes, they have been shaky due to overall behaviors. If we trust them and buck them up, they will show a good result. I personally witnessed many women drivers who are even more expert than men.

When we talking about women, how can we forget those who have been exploited by our society? In the name of honor, they have been slaughtered and made Vanni. In the name of so-called love, they are being revenged by throwing acid on their faces, leaving them into utter agony, anguish and despair for life. Only one in a million of these victims receives rehabilitation to survive and manage the way somehow. Many are still struggling all alone in absence of dowry and there is no end to the sufferings of the women, especially in the third world.
I conclude as we should not only celebrate this as a day but make it a milestone of revolution. I suggest that we need to incorporate respect and appreciation for every woman in our children. So that in the future we can have a safer and progressive world for our mothers, daughters, wives, and sisters, who are equally valuable to keep the equilibrium of this world.
Hoping for a change.
 Best regards.